Your customer's pain and prize
Feb 06, 2026
Engage more potential customers by NOT to talking about products
So what instead?
Pain and prize
Let's take engineering
(Where there is a tendency to lean immediately towards products/services)
Plenty of 'pain' to talk about
Downtime
Cost overruns
Risk
Inefficiency
Missed targets
All valid. All real
But pain on its own rarely drives action.
Because pain explains why something is uncomfortable
It doesn’t always explain why change is worth it
That’s where the 'prize' comes in
The prize is what life looks like when the problem is solved
Fewer outages
More predictable delivery
Lower risk
Less firefighting
More control
Less personal stress
Good selling understands both while poor selling obsesses over one (or misses them entirely)
If you only sell pain, you create anxiety
If you only sell prize, you create scepticism
The skill is in connecting the two
You sell the 'bridge'
And that starts with mindset
If you think like a partner, you’re not trying to scare someone into a decision... you’re helping them weigh up whether change is worth the effort.
This is exactly what the VALUE Framework supports.
🔸Validate = right opportunities
Is the pain real enough to justify change
Is the prize meaningful enough to pursue
🔸Align = right research
Understand how that pain shows up day to day
And what “better” actually means to them
🔸Leverage = right conversations
Explore impact and aspiration
What happens if nothing changes
What becomes possible if it does
🔸Underpin = right solutions
Position the solution as the bridge
Not a product. A path
🔸Evolve = right outcomes
Stay focused on whether the prize is being realised.
That’s where credibility lives.
Pain creates awareness
Prize creates momentum
When you help customers see both clearly, you’re not pushing a sale... you’re supporting a decision.
And that’s what good selling should look like
Are you clear on your customer's pain and prize?
Are you ready to increase your sales?
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