What makes a good sales conversatiion?
Oct 16, 2026
I've been thinking about what makes a sales conversation 'good'
Because I've sat in plenty of technical conversations that were excellent
Interesting discussion
Lots of expertise
Customer engaged
Questions flying around
Everyone seemingly happy
And yet... nothing much happened afterwards
Perhaps that's because a good technical conversation and a good commercial conversation aren't necessarily the same thing
You can understand the technical issue perfectly without really understanding why it matters
That little niggle with the machine might be connected to something much bigger
Capacity. Cost. Risk. Operational change. Customer expectations. Growth
Or maybe nothing particularly important
We don't know
Which is why I've become increasingly interested in Commercial Curiosity
Not simply being curious about the technical problem
Being curious about the broader context and what is going on in the customer's world
The VALUE Framework gives a useful way to structure that thinking.
🔸 Validate = right opportunities
Is this technical issue connected to something important enough to act on?
🔸 Align = right research
What do we already understand about their business, pressures and priorities?
🔸 Leverage = right conversations
What else should we explore beyond the immediate technical requirement?
🔸 Underpin = right solutions
How does what we do connect to the wider problem we've uncovered?
🔸 Evolve = right outcomes
What actually needs to change for the customer to consider this successful?
The interesting bit is that customers can happily keep conversations technical too so sometimes we need to be the ones who zoom out
Not with some clever sales questions
Just genuine curiosity
Asking "What else is going on here?"
That's often where the more interesting conversation starts
A commercially stronger conversation
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