Technique Vs Thinking
Sep 18, 2026
I've been thinking about why the same sales technique can feel so different depending on who's using it
Take questioning
Two salespeople could use exactly the same questioning model
One conversation feels collaborative
The other feels like you're being worked through a process
Same questions
Same technique
Very different experience
So perhaps the interesting bit isn't the technique itself
It's what's going on behind it
- What am I trying to understand?
- Why does it matter?
- Who benefits from the answer?
- Am I genuinely curious about where this conversation might go?
- Have I already decided where I want to take it?
That's probably why I find myself spending as much time developing sales thinking as sales technique these days
The VALUE Framework gives that thinking some structure.
🔸 Validate = right opportunities
Are we exploring something that's genuinely worth pursuing for both sides?
🔸 Align = right research
What do we need to understand before deciding what to ask or do?
🔸 Leverage = right conversations
Are our skills helping the customer think as well as helping us understand?
🔸 Underpin = right solutions
Are we responding to what we've learned rather than steering towards a predetermined answer?
🔸 Evolve = right outcomes
Are we still focused on what the customer was trying to achieve in the first place?
Questioning techniques matter
Listening techniques matter
Challenging well matters
But perhaps the technique is only the visible bit
The customer experiences the thinking behind it and that might explain why the same technique can create two very different conversations
(Pic of me thinking about life on a recent Ryanair flight)
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