Hot day... Hot take 🔥
Jun 29, 2026
I've noticed that sales starts to feel hard when it becomes too reactive
An enquiry arrives. An RFP lands. A customer asks a question
"Excellent! They like us. We're in here."
And off we go
Responding. Presenting. Quoting. Following up
But if we're honest we're often reacting to thinking that's already happened
The customer has been working things out before we arrived
They've been considering stuff like
- What's the problem?
- How important is it?
- Who needs to be involved?
- What are the risks?
- What does good look like?
The more of that thinking that happens without us the harder it becomes to influence
Which is why I've become increasingly interested in buying processes rather than sales processes
Sales processes tell us what WE want to happen
Buying processes tell us what the CUSTOMER is actually doing
That's a useful distinction
(Whether you like it or not... and some people just don't want to hear it)
How you structure your activity helps keep some semblance of control
The VALUE Framework at the heart of good collaborative selling provides this
🔸 Validate = right opportunities
Recognise what triggers the need in the first place
🔸 Align = right research
Understand how they're making sense of the situation
🔸 Leverage = right conversations
Engage the people helping shape the decision
🔸 Underpin = right solutions
Connect solutions to the thinking that's already taking place
🔸 Evolve = right outcomes
Help build confidence in the path forward.
When you see selling through the lens of buying things tend to change
You can engage earlier
You can have better conversations
You can become more relevant
And you waste a lot less time reacting to decisions that have already been made
(Is this a 'hot take'? The photo was)
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